The story of Vicky and Ken, married on September 24, 2005. This is their lives, their world, the way they see it.
Saturday, April 29, 2017
Thursday, April 27, 2017
Saturday, April 22, 2017
Saturday, April 01, 2017
Wednesday, March 29, 2017
Wednesday, March 15, 2017
Tuesday, March 14, 2017
Wednesday, March 08, 2017
Tuesday, February 28, 2017
Monday, February 13, 2017
Illumination is coming this week...
Everything you may have heard about enlightenment, which I call Illumination, is based on hearsay derived from metaphors too out of date for most people to fully understand. That is why I have reinterpreted the metaphors for the 21st century, making your path to Illumination easier to follow than ever!
But I wasn’t always Illuminated. I was born a Christian, born again, brought to Atheism through critical thought, and only found my way through Buddhism after a decade of hard work. Illumination was not found by following what I had been told but by searching deliberately. If you want to see the kingdom of heaven, you have to actually look.
Illumination is the essential ingredient missing from much of western religion and atheism is not designed to help you find it. Though it fits well in the atheist system – Illumination requires no god or worship – Illumination should be sought by Christians as well, for a more complete understanding of where they fit in the universe.
Because, as it turns out, Illumination (or enlightenment) is not as difficult to find as you might think. Heaven (or Nirvana) is all around you; you just need to know where and how to look. Understand such concepts as Samsara, Reincarnation, Karma, and Sunyata in ways you probably never imagined, ways that enrich your life – the only one you’ll ever get – so you don’t spend all of your time expecting it in a life after this one.
Illumination can be as simple as a change in perspective or as difficult as the destruction of the self, comprehending the significance of your own insignificance. But you can do it right now without dogma, without authoritarian rule, and without god.
Look for Illumination coming this week in ebook, with paperback and audiobook versions available soon!
Friday, February 03, 2017
Wednesday, January 25, 2017
Saturday, January 21, 2017
Friday, January 20, 2017
Monday, January 16, 2017
Wednesday, January 11, 2017
Thursday, December 22, 2016
Thursday, December 15, 2016
Dynamic Pluralism is coming soon!...
After more than a decade of work, I am pleased this morning to finally be able to share this...

In the history of philosophy, there have been many theories about ethics but none have been straightforward enough to understand and use in everyday life. That ends now with Dynamic Pluralism.
Dynamic Pluralism presents a system of ethics that is not only easy to understand and easy to use but beneficial to the lives of those who do so. Dynamic Pluralism filters out the philosophical jargon so popular in academic circles and structures ethics so it is accessible to everyone. Not only does it present and understandable system of ethics but it also shows the reader how they can use ethics to create a better world.
Dynamic Pluralism casts a clear and defining light on the challenges of our century – war, overpopulation, climate change, energy dependence, equality, and much more – and illuminates our path into a brighter future.

In the history of philosophy, there have been many theories about ethics but none have been straightforward enough to understand and use in everyday life. That ends now with Dynamic Pluralism.
Dynamic Pluralism presents a system of ethics that is not only easy to understand and easy to use but beneficial to the lives of those who do so. Dynamic Pluralism filters out the philosophical jargon so popular in academic circles and structures ethics so it is accessible to everyone. Not only does it present and understandable system of ethics but it also shows the reader how they can use ethics to create a better world.
Dynamic Pluralism casts a clear and defining light on the challenges of our century – war, overpopulation, climate change, energy dependence, equality, and much more – and illuminates our path into a brighter future.
We live in a world without a working system of ethics available to all people and this explains how and why the United States has ended up with a President-Elect like Donald Trump, a man bereft of ethical clarity, a moral compass, or any sense of justice. Dynamic Pluralism defines ethics, morals, and justice so that we may all understand them, what happens when we live without them, and how they should be used to create a better world.
Dynamic Pluralism is not just a book of philosophy. It is a Revolution in Ethics. It is a system for creating a new world based on ethical treatment, fair and fulfilling relationships, and a future in which we can finally live in peace.
Dynamic Pluralism is coming very soon in ebook, paperback, and audiobook!
Monday, December 12, 2016
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
Friday, November 18, 2016
Wednesday, November 16, 2016
Wednesday, November 09, 2016
Sunday, November 06, 2016
Thursday, November 03, 2016
Tuesday, October 25, 2016
Friday, October 14, 2016
Tuesday, October 04, 2016
Friday, September 16, 2016
Tuesday, September 13, 2016
Tuesday, September 06, 2016
Wednesday, August 31, 2016
Sunday, August 28, 2016
Monday, August 22, 2016
Friday, August 12, 2016
Friday, July 29, 2016
Thursday, July 14, 2016
Sunday, July 10, 2016
Tuesday, July 05, 2016
Sunday, July 03, 2016
Friday, July 01, 2016
Sunday, June 12, 2016
Tuesday, May 17, 2016
Monday, May 16, 2016
Wednesday, April 20, 2016
Sunday, April 17, 2016
Friday, April 15, 2016
What can we learn about someone who refers to children as "super predators?"...
There's been some talk online recently (or, at least, since last night)
of Hillary's use of the term "super predator." Was it a racial slur or
wasn't it?
Tell you what. Let's take race out of the equation and just focus on what we know. We know she was referring to "gangs of kids." So, let's assume that, instead of black kids, Hillary was referring to all kids. That all kids/any kids/any child/your child was a "super predator." Seen in this light, I believe that race is not the biggest issue here. I don't believe any child should be referred to as a predator of any kind.
But hey, that's just me. I don't have kids so I probably have no idea what I'm talking about. But I'm not voting for someone who had the poor judgment and shortsightedness to say something like that to begin with.
Tell you what. Let's take race out of the equation and just focus on what we know. We know she was referring to "gangs of kids." So, let's assume that, instead of black kids, Hillary was referring to all kids. That all kids/any kids/any child/your child was a "super predator." Seen in this light, I believe that race is not the biggest issue here. I don't believe any child should be referred to as a predator of any kind.
But hey, that's just me. I don't have kids so I probably have no idea what I'm talking about. But I'm not voting for someone who had the poor judgment and shortsightedness to say something like that to begin with.
Friday, April 08, 2016
Wednesday, April 06, 2016
Saturday, April 02, 2016
Monday, March 28, 2016
Sunday, March 27, 2016
Sunday, March 20, 2016
Thursday, March 17, 2016
Thursday, March 10, 2016
Wednesday, March 02, 2016
The question of Hillary...
I've spent a lot of time considering the question of Hillary Clinton and if I would vote for her if that became an issue. And, of course, I can think of a lot of reasons why I wouldn't: how she's taken money from big banks and private prisons, how her message of "leave everything as it is and don't hope for anything better" is about as cynical as anything I've recently heard, how she has supported just about every use of our military no matter the cost, and on and on.
But if you were to ask me today why I simply cannot support Hillary, I would have to say that Hillary strikes me too much like the kind of candidate the Republicans used to run: one who pays lips service to the needs of the many while protecting the interests of the few.
The choice in any election is never between the two most popular candidates. Telling me it's either her or Drumpf just tells me you've misunderstood the choice. The choice is between what your conscious, along with any system of ethics or morality you choose to follow, will allow. Mine just simply will not allow me to vote for this candidate.
Sunday, February 28, 2016
Friday, February 26, 2016
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
Sunday, February 14, 2016
Friday, February 12, 2016
Monday, February 08, 2016
Sunday, January 31, 2016
Sunday, January 24, 2016
Friday, January 22, 2016
Sunday, January 17, 2016
Sunday, January 10, 2016
Friday, January 08, 2016
Monday, January 04, 2016
First thing in the morning thought...
(This is one of those "first thing in the morning" thoughts. So, I apologize if it is not fully formed.)
We're all basically the same. White. Black. Muslim. Jew. Republican (kinda). Whovian. We all have, basically, the same wants and needs. Many of us fear that we won't be able to satisfy those wants and needs, that someone will take away that which satisfies those wants and needs.
And I can't help but wonder how much of that fear is just selfishness with a slightly more acceptable costume. I wonder how much misery and death and pain and suffering might simply go away if we stopped justifying our selfishness by calling it fear.
Probably a great deal.
We're all basically the same. White. Black. Muslim. Jew. Republican (kinda). Whovian. We all have, basically, the same wants and needs. Many of us fear that we won't be able to satisfy those wants and needs, that someone will take away that which satisfies those wants and needs.
And I can't help but wonder how much of that fear is just selfishness with a slightly more acceptable costume. I wonder how much misery and death and pain and suffering might simply go away if we stopped justifying our selfishness by calling it fear.
Probably a great deal.
Tuesday, December 29, 2015
Monday, December 28, 2015
Thursday, December 24, 2015
Donut-er...
Been hearing a lot about Tinder lately and as a married man of 50, I'm feeling a bit left out.
That's why I'm suggesting someone create an app called "Donut-er!" It's very simple. The app shows you donuts in your area and, if you like them, you just swipe and you're in donut heaven! (Okay, so you have to go pick them up - but when has a donut ever let you down?)
Someone get to work on this!
That's why I'm suggesting someone create an app called "Donut-er!" It's very simple. The app shows you donuts in your area and, if you like them, you just swipe and you're in donut heaven! (Okay, so you have to go pick them up - but when has a donut ever let you down?)
Someone get to work on this!
Tuesday, December 22, 2015
Monday, December 21, 2015
That Olympic Peninsula Layby - the first five minutes!...
Have you been considering picking up my first, full-length, autobiographical monologue from Audible or iTunes but haven't been able to make up your mind?
I'm here to help - with the first five minutes! Give it a listen!
I'm here to help - with the first five minutes! Give it a listen!
Sunday, December 20, 2015
Wednesday, December 16, 2015
Friday, December 11, 2015
Wednesday, December 09, 2015
Tuesday, December 08, 2015
Tuesday, December 01, 2015
Wednesday, November 25, 2015
Tuesday, November 24, 2015
Thursday, November 19, 2015
Tuesday, November 17, 2015
Friday, November 13, 2015
Tuesday, November 10, 2015
Monday, November 02, 2015
Friday, October 30, 2015
Thursday, October 29, 2015
Sunday, October 25, 2015
Wednesday, October 14, 2015
Tuesday, October 13, 2015
Monday, October 12, 2015
Sunday, October 11, 2015
Monday, October 05, 2015
Finding your place inside a single glass of water...
So, I was getting a glass of water last night before I went
to bed. Nice glass of water with a few ice cubes. And I looked at those ice
cubes and I thought about the life span of those ice cubes. You see, those ice
cubes came out of my fridge, which took hours of churning and spinning or
whatever the hell it does to spit out ice cubes in my glass on command. And
that’s exactly what it did, giving me this nice glass of ice water.
And as I brought that glass up to my mouth, I realized that
the life span of those ice cubes traces back a lot longer. Because those ice
cubes were made of water pumped from miles – hundreds of miles – away. Since I
live in Southern California, I could even say thousands of miles away. A rain
cloud smiles on a flower somewhere in Yakima or Boise and through the magic of
semi-modern engineering I’ve got ice cubes.
And not a second passed before I understood that I had no
idea of scope here. And I just gave up on the ice water. Those ice cubes had come
from water that went far beyond Yakima or Boise or wherever it fell as a
raindrop. Because that raindrop had been collected on the other side of the
world, and those water molecules predate even semi-modern engineering. They
predate all of our cities. They predate anyone we’ve ever read about and
anything anyone has seen. They were old when the first creature walked and that
very same water was imbibed then, too.
And it passed through their bodies and it evaporated and it
froze and it eroded and it shimmered and it cleaned ecosystems and it hit
umbrellas and maybe just things that looked like umbrellas until it fell on
that flower and took a ride to my ice maker.
Now, this is where my mind took a turn. Because once you
follow that water up from the primordial goo, you also have to take it far past
you. And me. That ice is going to shoot through me at a rate that would make it
dizzy, if such a thing were possible. I’ll eject it in the standard way –
please let our standards be equal here – and it’ll sail off to some new
horizon, some distant shore, some foreign tap.
And it will outlast you and you and you. It will be around
long after all of your children turn into little, old people. It will pass
through no type of creature you’ve ever heard of and that will be right here on
Earth. It will bathe the flesh of people we probably wouldn’t recognize who
worship dieties of one type or another you’ve never heard of before, who use
currency more valuable than anything you have, own technology so much better
than yours it’d make you sick.
Everything will pass before and behind and beneath and all
around that water until it has passed as well. And through this glass of water,
we are given an incredible gift. A way to not only observe our world but to
taste our world, to be a part of our world, to see our place in our world, and
to partake in the miracle that is our world.
What more do you need?
Sunday, October 04, 2015
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